The Ultimate Self-Hosting Architecture: Cloudflare, Tailscale & Proxmox (Without Breaking Things)
⏱ 3 min readSelf-hosting doesn’t usually fail because of bad software. It fails because everything is forced through the wrong network path. I learned this the hard way—first with Immich uploads, then with Nextcloud sync issues, and finally with Jellyfin buffering that made Netflix look fast. This post is the architecture I ended up with after fixing all …